Would you consider dating me
Much like the guys with something to prove, this isn’t about connecting with a person, so much as finding some combination that’s equal parts blow-jobs and life-coach.
The thing is: your partners aren’t there to fix you or fill a hole in your life.
They’re looking for someone someone who is going to help them see what they “missed out on” in life or who magically negates some quality they don’t like about themselves.
And as a result: we go diving in head first before we’ve actually healed up and end up reopening the wounds…That’s why we call them “partners” instead of “repairmen” or “tech support”.When we talk about someone “completing” us, we’re not talking about rolling along until we find our Missing Piece, we’re talking about someone who we never realized we needed.It not only implies that women have no agency, but that relationships aren’t about chemistry and mutual attraction, but about earning enough points until someone is to.No matter how much we plan or prepare, life frequently finds a way to kick our legs out from under us and drop us on our asses. New relationships especially require careful nurturing; it’s all-too-easy for a new or burgeoning relationship to fall apart because of unintentional neglect. It might be that your job has piled on the hours until you’re working 12 to 15 hour days without a break.