Second dating tips
There are some questions to be asked on this date and some things to watch for.
So be attentive and you may hear some startling words or see some actions.
What are your thoughts on dating etiquette for women?
Should you worry about the second date as much as you did over the first one?
Men do what they want, and if he’s not asking you out, it’s because he doesn’t want to. Now that I got that out of my system, I can tell you, with all sincerity, Michael, that this still seems like a promising venture.
Most men know the rules: if we want to see you, we have to ask you out. In three lines, you told me that: You had a great date. She texted you a thank you (even though you thanked her for a nice evening).
I appreciate you writing to me, Michael, but I’ve gotta tell you: guys like you really make my life more difficult.
Here are some guidelines to help you handle awkward situations involving the bill, and some other general dating advice for women. The financial aspect of dating is much different for a first date, for example, than it is for a fourth or fifth date.
I’m teasing because it’s a sweet and innocent question – and because there’s only so many ways to say “yes” in a blog post. Some guys have concluded that the next-day follow up is a failed strategy. If she doesn’t like you, she’ll be annoyed that you called. Oh, and by the way, do yourself a favor and make a move on her on your next date. Now that I know more, and despite the fact that hiding behind a computer or cell phone makes potential rejection easier to swallow, I still always ask a woman out for a second date at the end of the first, if I’m interested.
And for any guy reading this who also wonders the same thing as Michael, here’s a rule you can take to the bank: If she had a great time with you on Friday night, you CANNOT go wrong by calling her on Saturday afternoon to ask her out again. Either way, her decision was made on Friday night, not when you made the phone call. Otherwise, I fear I’m going to get another email in eight weeks wondering if she’s “receptive to affection”… A woman will let you know with her body language, if she’s genuinely interested in going out again, or if she’s just being nice.
Well, even if you got, it does not mean you should relax and care for nothing.
Yes, you have made the first impression, but now is the time to deepen it and make up your mind.