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Its a human defect; to be insecure about not being some kind of perceived level of attractiveness.
I know more than once in my life I have been attracted to someone based more on their personality and their mind and that molded how attractive they were to me and I am sure vice versa.
No experience, but wanted to say you aren't shallow.
We are allowed to have preferences and specific likes and dislikes.
Its frustration and really makes you second guess online dating.
In my defense I am not shallow but if you intend to fool me right from a first glance then how can I trust you.
If that's the image they want to convey to the world, good god, what do they look like in person?
So I just increase the odds by adding internet dating in the mix.
It sucks that women do this, and I've read theories behind it stating that it is because women expect physical flaws to be overlooked if you like the person.
That's bullshit to me, especially in the arena of online dating.
I believe in taking care of myself by eating right and working out. In my pictures I look very slim but in reality I have moobs.
Is it too much to ask that I find a girl that has a similar drive to be fit? If I ask for a full body picture, half of them just stop talking to me. If a girl does not have a full body picture, I assume they're large. There's usually a reason people end up saying, "Fuck the stigma! "Theres nice people on the internet, but just like in person everyone is trying to give the best first impression.